17 Mar

Screen Time

Ok this has sat in my drafts since June 2025. I guess I was a bit scared to press publish in case by the time I put it out there we were back to daily hours of screens. But I can thankfully confirm, we’re still very Low Screens here. Not screen free. But maybe once or twice a week, which from where we were is a big old U turn! And this includes TV, our phones, tablets. Anything. The TV was our biggest one, and tablets have never been a big thing here yet. My other half Mike works in computer gaming, so gaming is certainly in the kids future but right now when their brains are so little, it just doesn’t feel the right time for us. So here goes…..

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Oh no. Not another thing to feel guilty about.I know. I have the overwhelming mum guilt too. This isn’t a post about how you have to do what I do, or how if you don’t copy me then everything will be terrible.It is however, what we have been doing the last 3 weeks in my house. If someone else told me they did this a month ago, I’d scroll past, muttering about unrealistic expectations and feeling annoyed at them. So, bear in mind, this is not a “do what I do” post. I know from years of working with incredible families that it is impossible to know what anyone is going through at any one moment in time, and right now may not be the time to change.So, that being said, I present to you…. WEEK 3 OF VERY MINIMAL SCREENS. (For my children. Not me. I’m not superhuman. And also typing on my phone right now). It may be by the time of pressing publish on this, my children are once again an hour into Paw Patrol with no end in sight šŸ™ˆ. But, take your wins where you can, and this is ours right now.The other week, me and my other half attended a talk by GP, and PAPAYA advocate, Dr Helen Thomas. It was a wake up call. It was geared to children older than mine (3 and 6 years) using social media and playing games, which my children don’t do yet. But it made me reassess what I was modelling around them. I constantly feel I need to put my phone down and connect more with the life right in front of me. But also, so much of my connection to the outside world lies in my phone (there is a poem by the incredible @lorynbrantz that speaks to my soul about this). The stat that shocked me most was that there’s a decrease of 70% of children experiencing injuries from the outside world like breaking an arm from falling out of a tree. And now 90% of all children’s hospital admissions is for mental health. 90%. It’s shocking and awful and heartbreaking. But it doesn’t apply to me right? Because my kids are just watching TV in my control.Fast forward to the next day. My toddler woke up from his nap crying as per usual. Crying for Paw Patrol. Crying to watch it on TV. Usually, I’d put it on, cuddle up with him on my lap and let him watch an episode whilst he woke up and regulated so we could turn it off and get on with the rest of our afternoon. But I didn’t put it on. He was livid. Confused. Angry and sad.I realised in this moment, he was relying on the TV to regulate his emotions. And not just this moment. “I watch Pawtrol on TV” had become his catchphrase for any big emotion. Sad? Paw patrol. Angry? Frustrated? Bored? Paw Patrol. Of course we don’t always put it on (honest!), but he did always ask and often to the point I’d give in because I just _need_ to cook dinner (and attempting something healthier than nuggets and chips because, another layer of mum guilt, which takes more time).I spoke to him about “big tummy breaths”. Which bless him, he tried. It was so cute and so sad to see him taking his big breaths with his hands on his tummy. (Thanks to my lovely friend who recommended the ā€˜What to do when you feel like hitting’ book by Cara Goodwin, which had already started laying some seeds for him). It didn’t quite cut it. I offered cuddles, a puzzle, reading a book. Nothing. He was trying to calm but it just felt too big for him.Eventually I suggested we go and find our cat and this was the magic switch. We went outside and sat on the back step. The outside air, cat nowhere to be seen, seemed to change it up enough for him to get his breath and calm. And then he cuddled on my lap and our cat came out from her hiding place. This probably took 10 minutes but it felt like a lifetime. (More so for my other half trying to work from our office! It was a very noisy and sad 10 minutes) But I felt like it was a real turning point. Not for my son who repeatedly asked again for Paw Patrol, but for me.So, over May half term, we went away for a weekend where the TV remained off. It was so nice that we just haven’t turned ours on since at home other than on a couple of occasions. The requests for TV, although still present, are SIGNIFICANTLY less which is such a welcome relief.At first, I thought that it may be that it was lucky timing with half term where I wasn’t working, and my other half only worked 2 days. I predicted when I went back to work, the TV would make a dramatic reintroduction. But so far, it hasn’t.Initially, when we were both off, when one of us has cooked dinner, the other played with the kids. Without our phones. They’re now playing more with their toys independently. Half term was an expensive week. But we also went to the park, flew our kite, blew giant bubbles, played with playdoh, made our train set, ran around the garden and got the kids more involved with food prep again.I’ve felt less guilt because I know screens aren’t a healthy crutch. They’re addictive and the rate of change when watching a program is so fast that real life feels boring in comparison. But they are part of our life. I know in school my daughter will likely be watching Numberblocks in class and little videos to support lessons and that’s not the end of the world.Our children can and do quickly forget how to play, how to self occupy, how to emotionally regulate, without relying on screens. But they can learn and adjust. So if you need to hear this, could you try a screen holiday sometime? Even for an afternoon and evening. If this just doesn’t feel possible, then don’t worry. If you’ve read this far, it may be that sometime in the future, it will feel possible. If you do feel your child is using screens to regulate with, do check in and see what other strategies they have available to them. Co-regulating with a trusted other person is a pre-requisite to self-regulation, but I’m wondering if sometimes screens are replacing our connection to others in these moments.If your child needs help in learning regulation strategies, and you feel you need extra support, we’re always here to help too. Feel free to DM me or email hello@activeplaytherapies.com# #screentime #papaya #screenfree #parenting

04 Sep

Thoughts from a Therapist: Screening Screen Time

Originally posted on Sensory Integration Education on 30 July 2024.

In this month’s Thoughts from a Therapist blog, Anna Willis takes a look at the hot topic of screening screen time. Given the digital age we live in, finding a balance between screen time and other activities is important for everyone’s overall wellbeing. In her blog, Anna looks at the impact screen time can have on teenagers and young adults and the pros and cons this can bring.

As we’re focusing on teens and young adults this month, something that’s been on my mind has been the role of screen time and screening screen time. A key question that comes to mind for me is when does something become an addiction vs something that is regulating – and can it be both?

From a personal perspective, I find it all too easy to get sucked into my phone, scrolling through content that feeds my brain and lights up the little reward centre in my brain every time I find a nugget of joy! It can be a source of relaxation, play and distraction, but it can also become a habit that’s hard to break. I’ve started turning it off at night so I can’t check it first thing in the morning as I was finding that I was being sucked into work before I’ve even fully become conscious.

If, as an adult with an arguably fully developed frontal lobe, I struggle to manage my own screen time, it is surely an unrealistic ask to put the burden of regulating the amount of screen time on children? I’ve seen various parenting approaches, from restricting screen time with timers on devices, to more gentle parenting approaches where children are given free rein.

When we factor neurodiversity into the mix, this becomes even more complex. I’ve written before about the social benefits of the online gaming community. I’ve also seen some autistic advocates say that devices are crucial to a person’s ability to regulate, opening up a whole world of opportunity to them in the form of entertainment, relaxation, comfort, predictability, social opportunities and information gathering, and that by limiting access, we are denying people access to a key regulator.

Unfortunately, it’s not something I have an answer for – more just throwing it up as a topic for debate! I think screen time can become a distractor and limit real-world opportunities for interacting physically with environments and people, gaining regulating multisensory input and learning opportunities. The addictive properties of screens can be a hazard and screening screen time can put pressure on the parent-child relationship, which is particularly vulnerable during adolescence. However, preventing someone from accessing a regulating tool is not something that feels comfortable either and we all know how integral screens are to our work and personal lives today.

If anyone has the answer – please let me know!

Have a wonderful summer!

Anna

Thoughts From a Therapist is a regular series written by Advanced SI Practitioner Anna Willis about something that piqued her professional interest or inspired her in some way over the last month. Anna, an occupational therapist and owner ofĀ Active Play Therapies, has over ten years of experience working with children and adults with a range of learning disabilities and autism.

30 Jun

Thoughts from a Therapist: Showcasing Sensory Clinic Spaces

Originally published on Sensory Integration Education on 28 June 2024.

In this month’s Thoughts from a Therapist blog, Anna Willis gives us a sneak preview of what she’ll be presenting atĀ this year’s online SIE Conference. In her presentation ā€˜Showcasing Sensory Clinic Spaces’, she explores the creative side of designing and implementing sensory clinic spaces – from the basic ā€œwe’ve only got this space, let’s squeeze a swing inā€ to the Star Institute Treatment Clinic in Colorado!

I’ve had a busy month pulling together my presentation for SIE’s Conference in September. My presentation is Showcasing Sensory Clinic Spaces and I had a lot of fun revisiting old rooms, trawling through my old photo and video reels of work from years ago and visiting spaces to take videos of rooms in action.

I did wonder whether seeing therapy spaces would in fact be interesting to anyone else… and decided that, for me, I’m always so curious about where other people do their therapy, what it looks like, what their favourite pieces of equipment are and what they don’t rate – that I’m hoping there are lots of you out there too who are equally curious! It became a visual buffet of a wide range of sensory rooms from the basic ā€œwe’ve only got this space, let’s squeeze a swing inā€, to, wait for it… the Star Institute Treatment Clinic in Colorado!

My mentor and sensory guru, Virginia Spielmann, very kindly let me quiz her all about sensory clinic favourites, regrets and advice, as well as giving me a host of videos I’ve merged together to show you all the wonders of what must be one of the best SI rooms in the world!

Whilst doing my research for the presentation, I realised the breadth of creativity there is in doing Ayres Sensory Integration (ASI). We often don’t have access to giant rooms with lots of fabulously sturdy beams just crying out for suspension points. And instead, we may have a water bed and a gym ball. Or a bus.

That’s right. A bus! I’ve come across a couple of buses kitted out as sensory gyms and they look fabulous. Bar the obvious challenges of available space, they can be made to be so versatile and flexible, whilst having the added bonus of being entirely mobile and rent-free (although I guess parking spaces may be an issue!)  Although the bus didn’t make it into my final presentation, I certainly had fun exploring the creative side of sensory clinic spaces and I hope you enjoy my celebration of this at the SIE Conference later this year.

I hope I’ve inspired you all to go and buy a bus now!

Anna

Thoughts From a Therapist is a regular series written by Advanced SI Practitioner Anna Willis about something that piqued her professional interest or inspired her in some way over the last month. Anna, an occupational therapist and owner of Active Play Therapies, has over ten years of experience working with children and adults with a range of learning disabilities and autism.

30 Jun

Thoughts from a Therapist: What is Gestalt Language Processing?

Originally published on Sensory Integration Education on 28 May 2024.

In this month’s Thoughts from a Therapist blog, Anna Willis takes a look at Gestalt Language Processing, how this differs from Analytic Language Processing –Ā where we build from single words upwards –Ā and why Gestalt Language Processors are often misunderstood.Ā 

When I first started working with autistic children (which I discovered at a recent presentation was apparently 20 years ago. How did that happen?!), echolalia was often seen as a stim rather than as communication. At the STAR conference a few years ago, I heard about Marg Blanc for the first time and her work on Gestalt Language Processing (GLP). Now bear with me, because this is not my area of expertise, but it’s certainly something I’m interested in right now, hence deciding to write about it this month! This body of work started developing in the 1980s by looking initially at Natural Language Acquisition (NLA).Ā For most of us, we acquire language word by word. This is called ā€˜analytic language processing’ – where we build from single words upwards. In GLP, language is learnt in ā€˜gestalts’ which are whole phrases and can be learnt from songs, stories, videos etc.

Gestalt Language Processors are often misunderstood because understanding the context to a phrase is crucial to making sense of it. I have worked with a young person for 10 years now. When I first met her, she recited the whole of a poem as she walked into our assessment room. However, she wasn’t able to answer our questions. Recently, I went to see her after a long break. She was in her room watching her tablet. She didn’t look up but I knew she’d registered me and she tapped on to a separate video (at incredible speed!) and I could see the subtitles of the video clip say ā€œI miss your nuclear fusionā€. I felt all warm and fuzzy! I may again have misinterpreted some communication but it felt like her way of telling me she’d missed me. It was such a tiny moment and would have been so easy to miss had I not been looking at her screen or if I’d been an outsider who could have presumed she hadn’t registered my presence.

Gestalts have meaning. We may not be able to understand them but that doesn’t mean it isn’t communication. We may have to do a lot more work to unpick, such as finding out the context of when and where they learnt the phrase (for instance, a gestalt could be ā€œsit down nowā€ which could mean ā€œI’d like a snackā€ because that was the phrase they learnt and linked to having a snack).

Click here to access Marg Blanc’s website if you’d like to learn more about GLP.

Happy chatting!

Anna

Thoughts From a Therapist is a regular series written by Advanced SI Practitioner Anna Willis about something that piqued her professional interest or inspired her in some way over the last month. Anna, an occupational therapist and owner of Active Play Therapies, has over ten years of experience working with children and adults with a range of learning disabilities and autism.

30 Jun

Thoughts from a Therapist: Gear Shift to Secondary

Originally published on Sensory Integration Education on 23 April 2024.

In this month’s Thoughts from a Therapist blog, Anna Willis takes a look at the challenges students with sensory needs face when transitioning from primary school to secondary school and the role therapists can play in helping students navigate their way through this major transition.

In the UK, the transition from primary school (age 4-11 years) to secondary school (11-16 years) is a big leap. Children go from having the same teacher for most of the day to having a different teacher for each subject. They need to find their way around a big, noisy and often confusing environment to get from one lesson to the next and take a lot more responsibility for personal organisation of belongings, homework tasks and schoolwork. Despite this, children often get given less help at this time, rather than more. Often they don’t even get the same level of support (which was already required in a much less challenging environment).Ā 

Recently, speaking to a secondary school, a SENCO reflected that they often tend to take away the metaphorical rubber ring from primary schools and see who sinks and who swims. We reflected that perhaps it might be better to keep the rubber ring in place for this big transition and then gradually see what support can be taken away and what needs to be added in.

I’ve written before in a previous Thoughts from a Therapist blog about the differences I’ve observed between primary and secondary schools. This time, I’d like to focus on what we can do as therapists.

Something I’ve heard a lot about is the need to adapt strategies to secondary school-aged children: ā€œThat’s all well and good to have a big squishy fiddle toy/ ear defenders/ resistance band on chair legs in primary school, but what about now?ā€

At this age, children themselves often become a lot more self-aware (as well as in the upper half of primary school, aged 9 years +) and stop wanting to use the sensory tools that previously served them well. Equally, they can’t cart around a gym ball, wobble cushion and resistance band to put on each chair.

My approach in these situations is twofold. Firstly, find ways to meet the sensory needs that will absolutely still be there if they were there only a few weeks ago in primary school. Adapt this to what is now acceptable to the child. I talk about No Tool Strategies – things that can be done with no equipment. Examples include hand pushes and pulls, pushing down into the chair and arm stretches. All things that can be done in a seat without drawing any attention. I also spend time trawling the internet for age-appropriate fidgets (i.e., strategies that have Tools) that aren’t noisy or bulky, can fit in pencil cases, and don’t look conspicuous. Things like a black chew tube that fits over the top of a pencil, or a pea pod keyring that can attach to a pencil case and looks like a cute charm.

Secondly, I challenge schools to work on their culture. I discuss the concept of Equity versus Equality – making sure that staff and students alike all understand that we all have different needs and we all need different things. Just because one person needs a fidget toy does not mean the whole class has to have them, or that there should be a school-wide ban on them. Fostering a neuroaffirmative culture of acceptance and educating everyone about this is an important second strand here that works towards children with sensory needs being comfortable and able to express themselves. 

So, if you work with secondary schools or offer training where secondary staff attend, do look at adapting things. Obviously this will benefit the children but it’s also vital to get staff on board.

Keep fidgeting!

Anna

Thoughts From a Therapist is a regular series written by Advanced SI Practitioner Anna Willis about something that piqued her professional interest or inspired her in some way over the last month. Anna, an occupational therapist and owner of Active Play Therapies, has over ten years of experience working with children and adults with a range of learning disabilities and autism.

30 Jun

Thoughts from a Therapist: Know Better, Do Better

Originally published on Sensory Integration Education on 26 March 2024.

Hot on the heels of Neurodiversity Celebration Week, in this month’s Thoughts from a Therapist blog, Anna Willis takes a look at the challenges we can sometimes face keeping up with the language around neurodiversity. Given the pace it’s evolving at, it’s easy sometimes to make mistakes and that’s when we may need some understanding that we will make them but that it’s better to try than disengage. And when we know better, we can do better.

Writing with confidence about neurodiversity used to be something well within my comfort zone. However, being asked to tie in my Thoughts this month to neurodiversity has made me pause. Whilst I have good intentions and want to be a good ally to my neurodiverse friends, colleagues, clients and families, I’m very aware that at times I do get things wrong.

The language around neurodiversity has developed at such a pace. A few years ago, I would have been writing about “ASD” (autism spectrum disorder). Now I know that the term disorder is no longer helpful or wanted by a lot of autistic young people and adults. So I refer to autism (dropping the word “disorder”) and use identity-first language i.e., autistic person, rather than a person with autism as it’s not something separate to the person but an integral part of who they are and as this is what the majority of the autistic community prefer. 

For World Book Day recently, I shared my book recommendation for a fabulous graphic novel that has the word “Asperger’s” in the title and, quite rightly, someone commented that this terminology is outdated, particularly given Hans Asperger’s deeply disturbing links to Nazi regimes. This reminded me of the phrase ā€œKnow Better, Do Betterā€. 

” Having open, honest conversation and being able to share with someone when they’ve said something accidentally offensive, whilst acknowledging their good intentions, is so valuable.”

And this is what I strive for. I feel it’s important for us to try our best, with good intentions, knowing we may make mistakes. There’s so much more I can learn. Only this week I was reading about how diagnostics of autism and ADHD are framed in language of deficits (or one opinion I read on ADHD spoke of how our preconceptions about it are based on distress patterns) and how different it would be if we instead looked at the strengths that these give people such as monotropism ((hyperfocus on one subject or task) and holotropic sensory gating (the idea of having “wide open” sensory gates and subsequently taking in all sensory inputs).

On the same day, I read about a mum saying if she came across one more person talking about autism as a superpower, she would scream! And I also totally get that. Her point being that autism just *is*. The same as someone having black hair or blue eyes. 

I guess my point with all of this is that the landscape is complex and nuanced currently. It’s evolving at a pace and that makes it easy to make mistakes. But when we know better, we can do better. We need some understanding that we will make mistakes but that it’s better to try than disengage. Having open, honest conversation and being able to share with someone when they’ve said something accidentally offensive, whilst acknowledging their good intentions is so valuable. I sometimes witness other medical and health professionals stamping all over the invisible eggshells I’m trying hard to avoid and it can be difficult to raise – but that’s part of being an ally. 

Sharing the mental load of educating, reframing and helping everyone move forward to a more neuroaffirmative world.

Thanks

Anna

Thoughts From a Therapist is a regular series written by Advanced SI Practitioner Anna Willis about something that piqued her professional interest or inspired her in some way over the last month. Anna, an occupational therapist and owner of Active Play Therapies, has over ten years of experience working with children and adults with a range of learning disabilities and autism.

30 Jun

Thoughts from a Sleep Deprived Therapist

Originally published on Sensory Integration Education on 26 February 2024.

In this month’s Thoughts From a Therapist article, Anna Willis, Occupational Therapist and Advanced Practitioner in Sensory Integration, looks at the sensory aspects of sleep and the emotional and cognitive impact on everyone involved.

Ah, a good night’s sleep. Something I’ve been dreaming of (ironically!) since the end of pregnancy. My little one is now 15 months old and yet to treat us to sleeping through the night. It’s got me thinking about the sensory aspects of sleep and the emotional and cognitive impact on everyone involved.

Our health visitor is now starting to work with a sleep specialist for us. She showed me an image of a circus tent, likening the aspects needed for sleep as the ropes holding the tent up. One being ā€˜environment’ which as an OT, I have already spent a long time considering from a sensory perspective. The black-out blinds are up, the white noise is on (then off another night because maybe it’s too loud (?!), then on again the next and repeat), the heating is perfected to 18 degrees, the sleeping bag is tog matched to the chart, the routine is in place and I’ve perfected my dull yet reassuring ā€œIt’s sleepy time nowā€ statement.

Oh, and the amount of money I have spent on gadgets that will get my toddler to sleep is verging on horrifying. I’m looking at you Sooth ā€˜n’ Snuggle Otter, Starlight Polar Bear, Wubbanub, funny mattress vibrating Zed thing, Merino wool sleeping bag, silky comfort blankets, a myriad of dummies (all of which are rejected), soft toys with the ā€œrightā€ squishiness, soothing sleep music apps…! So the environment has been well and truly OT-ed to the max.

Which has got me thinking. Of all the equipment recommendations we give. Of the information we impart. If sleep is involved – it’s a whole new level of desperation for it to work. And also a whole new level of brain fog for clients, parents or caregivers to cope with. Implementing new things on top of sleep deprivation is hard. Doing anything that may result in less sleep seems almost painful.

So if your clients mention poor sleep (which a lot of our sensory friends do struggle with), bear in mind if they or their caregivers are also sleep-deprived as a result, they are likely to need more concrete things to work on. Write things down. Keep it simple. And keep the equipment recommended as brief as possible to avoid them buying everything in desperation (ahem).

Right, I’m off to Google more things to buy that will guarantee me a good night’s sleep!

Sweet dreams,

Anna

Thoughts From a Therapist is a regular series written by Advanced SI Practitioner Anna Willis about something that piqued her professional interest or inspired her in some way over the last month. Anna, an occupational therapist and owner of Active Play Therapies, has over ten years of experience working with children and adults with a range of learning disabilities and autism.

30 Jun

Thoughts From a Therapist: The Role of Gaming in SI Sessions

Originally published on Sensory Integration Education on 19 January 2024.

In this month’s Thoughts From a Therapist article, Anna Willis, Occupational Therapist and Advanced Practitioner in Sensory Integration, looks at the role of gaming when planning Sensory Integration (SI) sessions for her younger clients.

Phew – the December chaos is finally settling into January freshness. I love Christmas but I also love the sense of a new start that the month of January brings. I have some exciting things coming up that I am looking forward to writing more about soon! However, for this month’s blog, I’ve been thinking about the role of gaming.

Screen time is such a divisive parenting issue. Sometimes it feels like it should be heavily policed and limited, with all sorts of scary stories about what too much screen time can do. However I’d like to speak up for gaming as a meaningful occupation. 

As an OT, looking at children’s meaningful occupations is obviously a Big Thing I Do. So often, when I ask children now what they like playing, I’ll get a list of video games they play on an iPad, Switch, Xbox or Playstation. Old me would always be surprised as I’d be expecting a list of things such as ā€˜hide and seek’ or make-believe games! Mostly I have to go away after the sessions and Google all of these games.

When planning SI sessions and wanting to create fun, immersive play themes for children to fully want to engage in, I like to find characters and themes that link to their current interests, and often, this is game-based. A lot of children initially struggle to use their imaginations and motor skills (typically part of a larger picture of why they are coming to SI anyway!) to join in, but it does create a wonderful springboard into adventures in the SI room.

Another side to gaming is the social connections. A lot of the children I see struggle with friendships face to face but when wearing a headset, immersed in a game they love, speaking to others who love and understand the game, they can connect in a way that doesn’t happen so easily. There’s no pressure for eye contact or to read body language. There’s a shared special interest already, with very clear topics to talk about – the missions being completed on the game!

There are clearly issues that need addressing, such as age limits, risks of speaking to strangers and the addictive nature of some games. However, in moderation and with proper safety nets in place, gaming holds a special role for some children to be able to access a playful side of themselves and also connect with others. If you don’t already – why not research your clients’ gaming interests and see if you can wind it into ASI!

Warmest regards

Anna Willis

Thoughts From a Therapist is a regular series written by Advanced SI Practitioner Anna Willis about something that piqued her professional interest or inspired her in some way over the last month. Anna, an occupational therapist and owner of Active Play Therapies, has over ten years of experience working with children and adults with a range of learning disabilities and autism.

30 Jun

Thoughts From a Therapist: Magic Expectations

Originally published on Sensory Integration Education on 19 December 2023.

In this month’s Thoughts From a Therapist article, Anna Willis, Occupational Therapist and Advanced Practitioner in Sensory Integration, looks at setting expectations at this time of year.

Ah, the festive season is upon us! Everywhere looks different, sometimes smells different and there’s lots of different activities going on. At this time of year in particular, we often have high expectations of making magical memories, only to realise that perhaps all the magic may instead be creating overwhelm. 

For the families we support, often a large part of our role can be helping to reframe expectations. For example, if someone struggles with bright lights all year round, they may not quickly switch gears to enjoying all the sparkly lights at Christmas. 

Equally though, some children surprise us with how they do cope, leaving parents perplexed at why. Usually, the answer is ‘motivation’. Going into a bright supermarket is different from going into a Christmas grotto knowing you’ll get a present! 

Speaking of expectations, I visited a primary school recently who have reflected that their older students tend to regulate really well in the early years (reception, aged 4-5 years old) playground. So, we have been busy planning how to redesign their pastoral outside space with that in mind. 

The school system seems to have an expectation that, after reception, the majority of children quickly lose the need for sensory play and environments tend to reflect that. However, we know that isn’t the case! So we’re introducing a mud kitchen, a swing, loose tyres, water and sand play, and maybe even a floor-level trampoline, so that pupils can continue to access these fabulous sensory activities all the way up to year 6. Next stop will be getting secondary schools on board with a slightly more grown-up version!

I hope you all have the chance to rest and cosy up over this mid-winter break and meet your own sensory needs for comfort.

Warmest regards

Anna Willis

PS You may also be interested in one of our recent Sensory Snapshot blogs which takes a look at what schools need to be doing to become more sensory-friendly. You can read the full blog here.

Thoughts From a Therapist is a regular series written by Advanced SI Practitioner Anna Willis about something that piqued her professional interest or inspired her in some way over the last month. Anna, an occupational therapist and owner of Active Play Therapies, has over ten years of experience working with children and adults with a range of learning disabilities and autism.

30 Jun

Thoughts From a Therapist: The Double Empathy Problem

Originally published on Sensory Integration Education on 29 July 2021.

This is a new regular series written by Advanced SI Practitioner Anna Willis about something that piqued her professional interest or inspired her in some way over the last month. Anna, an occupational therapist and owner of Active Play Therapies, has over 10 years of experience working with children and adults with a range of learning disabilities and autism:

“Recently I was asked to offer some social skills training. Until the other month, I would have happily entered into discussions as well as recommending and supporting interventions targeted at ā€˜improving’ social skills. However, listening to Dr Damian Milton talk about the double empathy problem has changed my thinking on this.

“The double empathy problem is the idea that instead of solely autistic people finding social communication difficult,  it is actually a two way street – non-autistic people find it difficult to communicate with autistic people also.

“Crompton et al (2020) did an interesting study looking at information transfer – their study had chains of 8 people who needed to pass a story on, one person to another. The study found that non-autistic chains and autistic chains performed similarly in passing on the information. The difficulties arose with mixed chains sharing a lot less detail and reporting less rapport.

“The Therapist Neurodiversity Collective have a helpful poster around what they think are helpful skills to teach: self-advocacy, self-regulation and perspective taking. Narrowing it down to those 3 skills really helped me. I’ll be making my recommendations much more targeted and inclusive, and trying to be mindful of my own part in the two-sided nature of communication, as well as a bigger focus on supporting clients to self-advocate when possible.ā€